Thursday, June 19, 2008

David Mark Heiner


David Mark Heiner, age 19, of Logan, Utah, died on June 18, 2008 in Charlotte, North Carolina following a drowning accident.

He was born on July 1, 1988 in Salt Lake City, Utah to his parents Vickie Edgley Heiner and Mark D. Heiner.

He moved with his family to Charlottesville, Virginia for four years and then back to Logan, Utah where he lived until his passing. David attended the Cache County schools, graduating from Sky View High School in North Logan, Utah in 2006.

David loved politics and the theories of political science. That love led him to success on the Sky View debate team and continued to serve him as he pursued his degree at Utah State University. David saw politics and government as a way to make the world better. In pursuit of this dream, David took every opportunity to serve at USU. He was elected as a board member of the Political Science Honors Society, Pi Sigma Alpha and he served on the Advisory Council for ASUSU where he organized many activities and campaigns for student government. His hard work can also be seen in the new Political Science website that he set up this last spring. David planned to take his determination and passion for politics to Washington DC in spring of 2009 to serve an internship. He anticipated that this would be a historic time and he wanted to be right in the middle of it. He was loved as an undergraduate Teaching Fellow in the Department. His ability to connect with students and convey enthusiasm for the subject made him an invaluable resource. David worked hard to help others be successful. This generosity and love of politics will live on in a scholarship fund his parents are instituting in his behalf.

David was a beautiful, positive person who loved life, himself, and others. He was incredibly generous with an infectious smile and peaceful demeanor. Amazingly kind, he demonstrated compassion in everything he did. He had a wonderful sense of humor, which was tempered by love. He would truly light up the room and could bring out the best attributes and feelings in others. He helped people through the most difficult circumstances, with open ears, a loving smile, and a calming presence. He had such a magnetic personality that people couldn't help but love him. He concerned himself with the happiness of others. His life was driven by passion and zeal that would have taken him far. This world has been so blessed to have him in it; he certainly made it better with the small and simple elements of his genuine character.

He loved movies and worked at a local movie theater in Logan as a manager where he had many great friends and fun experiences. David loved the mountains in Utah and was an avid skier and snowboarder. He enjoyed hiking/backpacking with his father as a young man and later with his college friends. He was proud of his nerdy side and loved playing video adventure games. He also loved to read and discuss philosophy with his grandfather Jay.

He is survived by his parents Mark David and Vickie Edgley Heiner of Elkin, North Carolina, his sister Rebecca Heiner, his brothers Daniel and Nathan, his grandparents Jay R. Heiner and Helen Heiner of Center Harbor, NH and Bishop Richard C. Edgley and Pauline Edgley of Centerville, UT, his great-grandmother Melba H. Shand of Salt Lake City, UT and many wonderful and loving aunts, uncles, and cousins. He is also survived by his dearest friend, Erin Cullimore of Logan, UT.

The family will be receiving friends at a viewing held at Hodges Funeral Home in Elkin, NC on Friday June 20th from 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. A small service for family and close friends will be held at Hodges Funeral Home on Saturday, June 20th at 11:00. Officiating will be Bishop Richard C. Edgley of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Burial will be at Hollywood Cemetery in Elkin, NC. Services at the interment will be conducted by Rev. Ralph Delgadillo of Galloway Episcopal Church, Elkin. A public memorial service will be held on Tuesday, July 1st (David’s birthday) at 11:00 A.M at St. John’s Episcopal Church in Logan, UT.

Donations may be directed to the David M. Heiner Memorial Scholarship Fund (Utah State University Dept. of Political Science). Contact Yadkin Valley Bank (336) 526-6300 in NC care of Billie Jester. In Utah, Zion’s Bank (435) 755-9995 in care of Dan Balls.

“The pain passes, but the beauty remains.”

30 comments:

Anonymous said...

What a beautiful and touching tribute to an obviously remarkable man.
Our hears are breaking for David's family & friends. You all continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
We greatly appreciate the effort that has been put into keeping everyone updated through this blog.
With sincere love and sympathy,
Tamra and Bryan Neilson, Providence, UT

Anonymous said...

Dr. Heiner,
My prayers continue for you and those you love. May you find peace, rest and comfort in God's loving arms as you face the days ahead.
Sincere condolences,
Debra Green
Hugh Chatham Wound Care Center

Anonymous said...

Dear Heiner Family and Erin:

We are truly sorry to hear of your loss. Our son, Colin Geslin, lived with David during their first year of college. He had a blast and enjoyed his friendship with your talented and funny son. Colin was devastated to hear of David's accident (he is in Brazil on his mission currently) and he asked us to let you know he is praying for your family and for David. May the Savior's love for your family give you peace in the days ahead. David's bright and "big" personality will be missed.
The Geslins
Mike, Paige, Colin and Connor

Anonymous said...

Dr. Heiner & Family,
I had been praying all week for David's recovery, and that God would comfort each one of you during this time. I can't imagine the trauma you have been through; and can't begin to comprehend the pain you must feel with David's passing.

A very wise person once told me that during times of tragedy or turmoil to "Grab hold of God and squeeze him just as tight as you can, and never let go".
It is my prayer that you and your family will be able to hold onto God during this time and find the peace and comfort that only He can give.

In Sincerest Sympathy,
Denise Benge
(Ashley Patrick's Mom)

Anonymous said...

Dear Dr. Heiner and family, If anyone knows your pain, it is the good Lord above! May He wrap his comforting arms around each of you and fill that emptinest in your heart with his love. We will continue to pray for you! With love and sympathy, Robin, Amy, Samuel, Jacob, and Maelee Shaffer Galax,Va

Anonymous said...

Dear Mark, Vicki, and Family
You are in our thoughts and prayers during these very difficult times. Words can not express our sorrow and grief. May the Lord give you strenght and peace. We love you very much.
Love Saboor, Kristine and Family

jenna said...

Dr. Heiner & Family,

We are so sorry for you lose. We remember David from the cinefour and will miss his smile. Our prayers and love are with you.
Jenna & CW Daniels

Anonymous said...

David sounds like a young man who lived life to its fullest and was following his dreams. Even though his life was short, he accomplished so much and touched so many people. David and his dreams will live on through you and his friends and this world will be a better place. May God wrap you in His strength and comfort you through this time of sadness.

Janie Westra
(Cord's mom)

Anonymous said...

Dear Heiner family the political science department is grieving with you. I hope you find some solace knowing that David touched many of us and his infectious smile and personality will for ever be etched in our minds.
Patria Julnes
Political Science Department

Anonymous said...

Dr. Heiner and Vickie:
Just recently, I ran into David who gave me movie tickets and offered to watch our 2 1/2 year old son during the movie. Just the type of man he was. I'll miss running into him and asking about the family. God bless your family during this trying time.
Love,
Buzzy and Karina

Anonymous said...

Mark, Vicki, and family,
We are grieved to hear of David's death, and we want to express our deepest sympathy. We pray for David, and we pray for you in your time of grief. You have honored David so beautifully in the tribute you have written. May you be blessed with God's love and peace.
Marty and Anne Anderson, N.Logan,UT

Anonymous said...

Dr. Heiner
I am so sorry for the loss of your son. My prayers and my heart felt sympthomy go out to you and your family at this difficult time...
God Bless
Rachel Harris (Logan UT)

Anonymous said...

This news breaks my heart. David was one of the greatest people I've ever met. I was privileged to consider him a good friend. Last time I was in Logan the only thing I wanted to do is see David. He was away and now that I never had a chance to say "Hello" or "How are you" in two years...I can't help but cry.

I'm truly sorry to hear the passing of David. I wish I could be there to support a family that has both changed my life and been there for me many times in the past. I miss you all and I'll hold a memory of David close to me where ever I go.

He will be forever missed,

William Ryan Hedgecock, Seattle Washington

Anonymous said...

Dr. Heiner and Family,

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. May each of you feel Heavenly Father's love more strongly at this difficult time.

Many thanks for the compassion and concern shown to us over the years. We are thankful to have had you as our doctor.

Steve and Emily Ballard

Anonymous said...

We are so sorry for the loss of David. He was truly an exceptional young man -- an intellectual, always with a smile and kind words. Despite the fact he was usually the brightest person in the room, he made those around him feel warm, welcome, and of value. We will miss him so much. We love you, David.

Mike & Shannon Rigby

Lance and Mandy said...

Dr. Heiner and Family,
You are so full of Goodness just as David was. It was so neat to read the many memories of your son and Brother. He lifted many people, and was very selfless. I will never forget all you have done for my family. I Pray that you will be surrounded by angels during this time and always.
Sincerely, The Gittins
Family

Anonymous said...

Dear Heiner family:

You do not know me, but I felt compelled to sign this address book. I saw Dr. Erlandson yesterday and he was talking about how highly he thought of you all. I know from reading these comments that your son was a fine young man. My heart goes out to you all as I think about how North Carolina is not the place your extended family calls home. I know that you feel the love and support of this community, but I know that it must be hard to be away from your family at this time. I am remembering you all in my prayers because I know that God can help you to get through each minute of each day that lies before you. I pray that you will be filled with His peace and His love in these difficult days.

Donna Jones
Thurmond, NC

Anonymous said...

Dear Heiner Family,
This is Saturday morning and I just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you and praying that your hearts are full of peace. God has received and welcomed a Wonderful addition to His Heavenly Family. I know it is so Beautiful where he is, i can't wait to see it myself. Just watching, hearing and seeing the powerful faith you have in Jesus is so inspiring to me. I know times are hard and yu are suffering much pain, but isn't it reassuring when you have a Wonderful God.
I will continue on past this day to pray for you and my heart is with you in this celebration today. We love you.

grace is amazing said...

I am so sorry for your loss. David must have been a remarkable young man; one that any parent would have been proud to call son. My thoughts and prayers are with you on this day. May the love of the Lord surround you and grant you peace.
Sandra Luffman
HCMH

Anonymous said...

Dear Heiner Family,
We have always had great respect for the Heiner family. Dr. Heiner delivered three of our grandchildren and we heard nothing but wonderful commments about his expertise as a doctor. Then our daughter Janey met David. The two of them have spent a lot of time together this past year. It seemed that wherever Janey was David was there too. He brought her a lot of joy! Because he spent so much time with Janey we also got to know him. He went to Jazz games with us, and helped us with projects like the wedding of our youngest daughter. We had some amazing political and philisophical conversations with him. We were so impressed with his enthusiasm for learning and for life in general. He treated Janey with such respect and concern. She loved him very much! We are so saddened by his passing. The world has lost a great soul. He will be missed by so many here in Logan. Life will never be the same again. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers and we will never forget David.
Susan and Steven Stoddard

Anonymous said...

Dr Heiner and family,

My prayers and thought have been with you from the time I hear the news of the accident. Everyone has
to heal in their own way , but for
me Music has always helped me through lives tough times.

And as I prayed for you today during the time of the funeral
One song keep ringing in my
ears....

A friend is a friend forever
if the Lords the Lord of THEM
and a friend will not say NEVER
for the WELCOME will not end...
And though it is hard to let YOU
GO in the FATHER'S HANDS we know

That a LIFETIME is not to long to
live as FRIENDS....through life
and through his passing David is
our friend and will be with us
Always...God Bless you all is my
Prayer...

We love you all
Gina and Jamie Couch

Anonymous said...

To the Heiner Family-
I'm not sure what to say at a time like this. I just wanted to let you know that I was saddened to hear of David's passing. Your entire family has been in my thoughts and prayers since that time.
May all of you find comfort and peace in the memories that you will always hold of David.
With deepest sympathy,
M.Reeder

Brian said...

Mark, Vickie, and family,

We continue to think of you and hope you know that your cousins love you dearly. We wish we could be at your services. Please know that you are in our prayers. Love,
Brian, Nat, Mia and Neve Townsend

djhuntsman said...

Dear Dr. Heiner and family,
My heart goes out to you and your family at this time. I was so saddened to hear of your loss. I pray that you may all find peace and comfort. My thoughts and prayers are for you at this time.
Sincerely,
Jolene, Dustin, and Adylaide Huntsman

Kimberly Klinkowski said...

Dr. Heiner and Family -
What a privilege it is to read such a beautiful and sensitive tribute to your truly wonderful son. I am so sorry for this incredible loss. My heart is deeply saddened for your family. I will continue to pray for peace and comfort to attend to your family.
With sincere sympathy,
Kim Klinkowski, LRH OR

Anonymous said...

Dear Mark, Vicki and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. It has been years since we graduated together from medical school and though we have not kept in touch personally, I have followed your career and growth of your family through my sister Cindy. She and her family were very impressed with the person David had become. David must have been very special and was fortunate to have you as parents. The relationships that we make in this life are one of the only things that we take with us into the next life. I am sure that your relationship with David will continue to grow when you meet him again. Mark, thank you for being my daughter's doctor. May you find peace and comfort in your time of need!
Sincere condolences,
Jed Bindrup, Draper, UT

Anonymous said...

Dr. Heiner and Family,

We recently learned of David's passing from "our" Aunt Marcia. We are deeply sorrowful for your families loss. We have a specific memory of David following you on your rounds on a spring Sunday morning after the birth of our son Zak. We remember him, with his hat on backwards, talking non-stop and right at your side. We hope your family can find peace and comfort at this time through our Savior's love.

Travis and Amy Packer
Idaho Falls, ID

Lisa said...

I am so so so sorry for your loss. I never knew David personally but this tribute is so beautiful. Logan had a big loss when you guys left. Know you are in all of our hearts and prayers.

Unknown said...

Mark and Vicky,

We just learned yesterday of your family’s loss, and wanted to let you know of our unending love for both of you, as well as for your family. We have many fond memories of David in his youth, and particularly remember the treasured times our two families were able to visit together after living so far apart. David grew to be a remarkable young man, one that we know you are proud of, and we’re sure his influence will continue to touch everyone he associated with throughout their lives.

We know that the veil is thin at times like this so that the Holy Spirit can strengthen and guide you through the difficult days. Please know that while we can’t be with you in person, our thoughts and prayers will always be with you, our life-long friends, to receive comfort and peace.
With love,

Tom & Becky Whitchurch Family

Anonymous said...

Vickie, Mark and family,
I was sadden today as I read about the passing of your son. With parent like you, I am sure he was a wonderful, kind, and happy man. I thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in Christ.

Dan Christensen
Tremonton, UT