The ICU team, including the critical care physicians and the neurologists, met with David's family today to review the results of the CT scan that was performed yesterday. We had previously learned that the first CT scan that was done almost immediately after David arrived in the ER had already started to show subtle signs of severe brain injury. Yesterday's CT scan confirmed that there is complete and irreversible damage throughout all portions of David's brain. Regrettably, even though his heart and lungs have been kept going through artificial means, there is no chance for even minimal recovery from this injury.
Family members are now in the process of making final arrangements. David's girlfriend of three years, Erin, is flying in tonight.
We are filled with immeasurable sadness at the loss of this outstanding and beloved young man. However, we have cherished the precious time that we have had to gather around David, cry, tell stories, and begin to reflect and celebrate this remarkable young man's life.
We invite you to comment and share special rememberances of David Mark Heiner.
119 comments:
God bless and keep all of you who are near to David. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Kathy and Janet Snow
I am so sorry.
~Mary Nielsen
Dr Heiner and family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We are saddened that we did not get to meet David and get to know him, from all the comments I have read, he sounds like a remarkable young man. Your loss will be Heaven's gain. We pray that God will put his loving arms around you and comfort you throughout the difficult days ahead. Please know that we are thinking about you and praying for you all, and PLEASE let us know if there is anything we can do for you.
In Gods Love,
Donna Hutchens-Elkin Pediatric & Adult Medicine.
I am so sorry to hear the news about David. The family continues to be in my thoughts and prayers. God will give you strength to face the difficult times ahead. With Gods love, Teresa Fowler OB nurse HCMH
This is Erin's dad, Nolan.
David has been one of Erin's best friends even before they stated dating, starting in the 8th grade. He has been so thoughtful, kind, and loving to her for 7 years. We too love David like a son. He will always hold a special place in our hearts. I which words could express the depths of our sadness. Thank you for raising such a wonderful son. He will be missed but not forgotten. Also, Thank you all for the love and kindness you've shown to Erin. You've truely made her feel like she is part of your family, and that means a great deal to us.
With all my love,
Nolan Cullimore
To the Heiner family- our deepest heartfelt sympathy.May God bless you and give you strength. love and prayers, kim,sara & josh money
Daniel has been keeping Arthur up to date on his brother, David's situation. We were heartbroken when we found out about this tragedy. Our prayers for comfort are with all of you.
The Wardle family
Dr Heiner and Family-
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. David will be greatly missed. I have always enjoyed seeing David when he would stop by the office. I cannot imagine what you are going through right now. I hope you find comfort in knowing how much your family is loved and that everyone is praying for you. We miss you and your family.
Much Love,
Cade and Tina Denney
Heiner family:
Jared and I have had you in the forfront of out thoughts and prayers for the last few days since David's accident. We had held out hope that he would come around and make a turn in the right direction. We are so sad to hear of the recent news that you have recieved. The decision you have to make is one that no parent should never have to make, and for that I am deeply saddened for you all. While it is a difficult time for you all David would want you to remember all the fun memories that each and every one of you share with him. May you find comfort and peace in eachother and the Lord durring this process and the weeks to come. Your family will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers, and we love you all so very much, and share in your grief.
Jared and Kirsha Buttars
For all of David's family and friends:
Our hearts go out to you in this saddest of times. We have been, and will continue to, pray for strength for all those whose lives were touched by David and whose hearts must be hurting. Please let us know if there is anything we could do to help in any way.
May God comfort you and grant you strength.
Glenn & Kim Golaszewski
David was such a great person, and literally everyone around him was drawn to his magnetic personality... not to mention he was humorous and highly intelligent. It was a joy to know David and to share laughs with him every now and then. We are all in complete shock and saddened by his loss, but we know that he is in a better place. God bless your family! David will be remembered.
- Marc Neilsen/Stephen Neilsen
Dr.Heiner and Family,
There are, of course, no words to adequately convey to each of you how very sorry I am for this tragic turn of events.I was never fortunate enough to meet David but I know from what you said about him that he was a fine young man with a bright futue ahead of him. I know he was majoring in Political Science and I wanted to talk politics with him someday. People his age seem to be more intuned than when I was his age. I know he wanted to make a difference, and from all the things I have read about him, it sounds like he did in many ways. Memories are what will give you the most joy...and the most pain. Please know that my heart aches for each of you that have loved David in the special relationship you have shared with him. Most of you I do not know but rest assurred you are now in my thoughts and prayers.
Gail Poplin
David was really an amazing guy. I didn't get to know him as well as I wish I could have; I was looking forward to starting a job with him this week. He will be sorely missed. He always impressed me with how kind he was to everybody. He never failed to say hi to me when he saw me and it made me feel like I was worth something. I'm deeply sorry for such a great loss.
Heiner Family,
The staff of Foothills Family Medicine would like for you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. God bless you!
I am sorry for your loss. I think it is amazing how many people have been touched by David. One needs to only look at the size of the facebook group dedicated to him! I think he would have enjoyed knowing that so many care and love him.
God bless the Heiner family. I know they have the strength and courage to get through this trying time.
Dr Heiner and Family,
We are so sorry to hear about David. May God's tender mercy and love be with you in these sad days ahead. I know Jesus will comfort you with his loving arms.You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
With love and care,
Dollie and Debra Norman
David and I went to high school together. He was affectionately known as Heiner. He was always a tease and I always remember David being the one to light up the room. I have many memories just laughing with him and craking jokes. He was a sweet guy and always understanding. Thanks for the wonderful memories Heiner! God bless you all!
Dr. Heiner,
I am so very heart-broken for you and your family. May God comfort you as only He can in this extremely difficult time. No words are adequate, however, my prayers continue for you and those you hold dear.
Debra Green
Hugh Chatham Wound Care Center
I saw a firefly tonight It's light was shining, then disappeared, then moved to a different place- to again shine brightly. I thought of David's journey and his light to again shine brightly, just in a different place.
We have constantly been thinking of you.
The Mantero Family- LeAnne, Jack and Adriana
Dr. Heiner,
We are so sorry for your loss. We will continue to keep you and your family in our prayers.
Debra Matthews OB at HCMH and Jeff Matthews Audio Unlimited
Dr. Heiner,Vicki,Rebecca,Daniel,& Nate,
We can't imagine what your family has been going through since Friday. We want you to know you have been and will continue in our prayers. We met David only a few times, but it felt like we had known him forever. He had a great personality!! We pray God will give you strength you need during this difficult time. Our family has a motto..."F.R.O.G." (Fully Rely on God). He will help us through any situation!! We are here if you need anything.
Trent,Amanda,Lakan,Kirstan,Brett,& Boone Beaver
Dear Heiners-
I am so sorry to hear about your precious son David. I never knew him personally but my sister is Hayley Munson and I have only heard such wonderful things about him. She loved your son so much and I am grateful to him for being such a wonderful friend to my sister. he will be greatly missed by everyone who ever knew him and even those of us who have just heard memories of him. Thank you for sharing your wonderful son with the world. God bless and I am thinking of you at this time.
David was a bright spot in a bright group of friends that included my daughter, Karren. He was funny, smart, charming, accepting, and (according to my sources) a "fugitive" champion! Our family is heartsick over your tremendous loss. His friends are overwhelmed with grief. We will continue to pray for your family and for all those who loved David so much.
Dr.Heiner,family and special friend Erin; We are so sorry to hear this news and understand how devastated you all are tonght. Having been in your position not long ago please believe me when I say the Lord is with you now and always will be. If we can do anything, no matter how small or how large, please allow us to do so. Our love and prayers are with each of you. Jon & Paula Saylor
I am truly saddened to hear this news. This young man's legacy will live forever and certainly won't be forgotten. My prayers will continue to be with you....
Jason Throckmorton
Mark, Vicki, and Children,
We have thought of you so many times over the past few years. We miss you being here in Cache Valley. For the past few days we have had you in our constant thoughts. We are so sorry for what you are going through. You are such remarkable people and we are filled with sadness for this tragedy. We will continue to pray for you all.
With love and sympathy,
Tamra & Bryan Neilson
Dear Dr. Heiner & family,
I am so sorry. My heart aches for each one of you. I never had the chance to meet David but I felt like I knew him just from you, Dr. Heiner, speaking so proudly of him. You all remain in my thoughts & prayers. God bless you all!
Love,
Amy Billings, OB Nurse HCMH
To the Heiner Family:
I am so saddened and heart broken to hear this news. As a mother of two precious boys, I cannot imagine such a loss. It is so wonderful to hear the praise and gratitude for the time God allowed you with David. I didn't know David, but is is clear he is quite remarkable. We will continue to keep your family in our thoughts and prayers. May God wrap his love around you all and comfort you during this difficult time.
Emily Norman
Yadkin Valley Home Health
I never met David, but I went to the same High School. I am so sorry that this had to happen. You are all in my prayers. God bless you all.
-Laurel Greathouse
Mark and Vicki, I just heard the news and my heart aches! We just had a little girl drown in our ward this week, and my heart hurts. I have so much love and respect for your family! I have really missed seing you around, and I want you to know our thoughts and prayers are with you now more than ever! May god comfort your family at this time. Love, Annilee Griffin
We cannot express how deeply saddened we are by your loss. We never had the opportunity to meet David, and from all of the comments we truly missed out on a remarkable young man. Even though it doesn't make things any easier, Heaven has gained a wonderful angel. May you stay close to God and let Him strenghen you during this difficult time. You are a wonderful family and always remember David will always be with you wherever you are...you will always have him in your heart. And because of the life he lived and your family lives you can see him again one day. May God be with you now and always!!
Joey and Angie VanHoy
We can only add our heartfelt sorrow at this tragic situation. I truly believe that God does not give us trials that we can not handle but I can't imagine the road that lies ahead. I hope there is some comfort in knowing how very many people love your family. So many of us here in Logan and there with you, would do anything for your family. I pray that you will truly feel that support and love not just in the coming weeks but forever. You are in our prayers.
Matt and Kristen Sickler
Joyce Rampton
One of the great memories that we have of David is his kindness. Our family went to see the movies and David had received some free tickets. He was so kind to share them with us. My children when they heard of David's accident immediately remembered his big smile and fun personality at the theatre.
I looked forward to any visit David made to the office. He had a contagious personality that immediately lightened any room. I liked to talk to him about life and politics. I will always remember David! Thanks for raising such a great son!
We can't express how sad we are about the loss of David. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you.
Love,
Jen
I am so saddened to read this latest news. My heart seemed lighter yesterday with the hope of some better news. I have prayed for your family since I heard on Friday. I hurt for you and wish there was more I could do. I can't imagine your pain as parents but I lost my own brother a few years ago and we too had to make the very difficult decision you are now faced with. It was the hardest decision I have ever faced but we made it knowing it was what was best-best for him. As I have read about David and those who knew him I have been so touched. Although I have never met him, as I have read, I too have been positively affected by his life. To see notes from so many people across the country speak so well of your son says much about his character and how you love him and how he loved you and those around him. I have a deep faith that helps me know that God will see you through this. Continue to lean on the Lord and those you love and know that the community of Elkin grieves with you. My prayer vigil continues. May God grant you peace and comfort. I care for your family and especially Daniel our student- Please let me know if there is anything more I can do.With much love, Pam Colbert
my thoughts and prayers are with your whole family i am so sorry and hope that everything works out for the best. David was a wonderful friend and i regret that i didn't get to know him even better.
Kendra Hammer
Dr. Heiner and Family,
We are soo sad to read of the loss of David..
We are thinking of you and praying for you.
You are amazing people, and will rely on the strength of each other to pull through this difficult time.
Know that so many people here in Logan are on your side,
We love you!!
Suzanne Swartz
Logan Utah
Dr. Heiner and family,
I'm SO sorry to hear about your loss. We hope that some how you are able to find comfort in such a difficult time. Your family is missed greatly in the "Cache Valley." Heidi and I can't go to lunch without her getting stopped by old patients letting her know how much they miss you!! Our thoughts are with you and all those touched by David's life.
Katie and David Welsh
Dear Mark, Vicki & family,
We are so sorry to hear about the saddness that has come upon your family. We were so blessed to have had your family and David in our lives if only for a short time. We truly are the lucky ones for having known David,what a wounderful young man and example he was and always will be to us. We are better people for having known David. Life is funny some of us live to be very old and never leave a mark in this life where others are taken way before their time and touch handfuls of individuals. Know that David was one of those special ones who touch many in his short time with us. You will always be in our hearts and Prayers. Ned, Cindy Miller and Family
Mark, Vickie & family,
We are absolutely heart-broken tonight as we mourn with you over this latest news. I have fond memories of David dating back to when he was just a toddler running around with that big glowing smile on his face. I can't begin to express how sorry we are. Please know that we are praying for your family during this difficult time. God bless.
With love,
David & Amy Hurst
Herriman, Utah
At this sorrowful time, Linda and I extend our deepest sympathies to you -- the members of the Heiner and Edgley families. You have been in our thoughts and prayers since we heard about this horrible tragedy last weekend. I think I can speak for the entire Ricks Creek community in wishing God’s blessings of comfort, peace, and healing upon you.
Tom Abbott
Mark, Vickie & family,
Although there is little we can say at this time when sorrow has touched your hearts, we hope the closeness and the memories that your family has shared will give you strength and comfort. Please know that others care and share in your sorrow. We are thinking about your family with our hearts and remembering you in our prayers.
May God give you strength and comfort you.
Ron and Billie Jester
Heiner family,
I am so heart broken over your loss. Life gives you things that are sometimes very questioning and hurt so bad. We are praying for you and I hope at this time you can find some comfort in all of the wonderful memories you have of David. What an awesome kid, he always had the ability to make everyone around him smile with his wit and humor. I didn't know him very well but I could feel, just by being around him what a true person he was. May god be with you at this time and always. We love you and miss you
Sasha Watts
Dear Mark, Vickie and family,
My heart and prayers are with you. I join you in your heartache and I am praying for you and all of your family in the days, weeks, and months to come.
May God's peace and presence be with you....
Monica Schruhl in Cache Valley
Heiner Family,
I am sooo sorry to hear the latest news with David. I have been reading up on him daily and was patiently waiting for the miracle that you and your family deserve with news of improvement in his condition. I unfortunatly didn't know David, however being in a family like yours he couldn't have been anything but amazing. You truly have gone through more than any parent should ever have too. Your an amazing family, and if there is anything that we can do for you here in Logan PLEASE let us help in anyway. Your family is deeply missed and David will continue to stay in our hearts and souls for a long time to come.
Leslie Bennett(CNA at LRH Mom/Baby)and Family
David-
You are the best friend that anyone could ask for. You helped me through our Engish class, making each day an adventure. I love you and will miss you everyday! Thank you for being the person I could lean on. God be with you 'til me meet again.
With all my love,
Ally
Dr Heiner and Family,
I did not know David. But again as said before in many comments he sounds like a wonderful man. We are so sorry. Just know your family is in so many hearts, thoughts, and prayers. May you find peace in this situation through the Saviors healing hands and never ending comfort.
With Love,
The Wassom Family
Heiner family-
While I'm not as poetic as others and I didn't know David personally, I am truly saddened by this turn of events in your lives. Dr. Heiner, you were such a great physician for me and so many friends of mine here in Logan that we were all deeply saddened by your move and even more so now by this accident. Please know how much you and your family are missed and that you are in our thoughts and prayers. If David was anything like you, the world will surely have lost a gentle man.
Reese and Stefani Thatcher
(Zach, Sam, Ben and Abby)
Dear Heiner Family & Erin,
Becca and Erin know how much I love David. I just want the rest of your family to know too. Every moment I spent with David was so happy for me. I loved how excited he would get about new music he found and had to share with me. He couldn't just give me a CD. No, we drove around cache valley for hours on end as he explained why each song on each CD was amazing. We shared his IPOD earphones many a time. I loved this about David. David placed value and worth on me as a person like no other has done. He made sure to tell me everytime we spoke or saw each other how much he loved me and how great he thought I was. This is an extraordinary talent. The last thing he did with me was help me pack up my first grade classroom. My bookshelf sits in his car as I write. The day he left he called to tell me he would miss me and that he loved me.
Your son, brother, grandson, and boyfriend was one of the most amazing people I have ever known. My grief is overwhelming right now. But you should know that he told me about you all the time. He loved you so much and was so excited to spend the summer with you. Mark - a special note to you. He LOVED hanging out with you. He told me you were the coolest and most intelligent person in the world. Your son looked up to you so very much!
I will miss David everyday. I will miss his great smile and him wrapping me in his arms with an enormous bear hug. I love David. I love Becca and Erin. I will forever have your family in my thoughts and prayers. And I will forever have David in my heart.
Love, Janey Stoddard
I wish I had known David longer than I did. From the time I first met Dave at the beginning of spring semester to its end we shared some awesome experiences. I remember a couple of occasions where we sat until the library closed at midnight, scheming up ways to get a head of our opponents in a legislative politics class. The best part of it was that we never got anything done--we spent most of the time just laughing as we dreamed up the silliest "strategies" that we could...
Dave knew himself better than anyone I ever met; his energy, his passion for the things he did was amazing and something that I admired so much about him. Never once did I see him without his smile or that infectious laugh. No matter the circumstance Dave could find the silver lining and cheer everyone up... Why are the best among us the first to go? God I'll miss you man...
I know Dave would find this totally lame but I went ahead anyway and wrote this poem in my attempt to deal with the grief of losing him. It's pretty terrible but it's the best way that I know to express how I feel about everything that has happened...
Against the image
of ourselves--
only a handshake from the dark--
a chance to redeem and confide
seems too little to ask.
Revelation is my listless gaze--
in memory
forever a face
to live in ours
these times of summer cold.
Is it the first thing we see
in new light--
in the absence we've only just found?
Resonate again
this space--
those words that killed
only hours ago
left strewn and shaken--
a newly broken world.
Again and again
a friend
unchanging anymore
still and quiet
amidst this noise
of my bitter,
so bitter cries.
May it be
a voice without breath
in this chamber's dimming lights
the feel of so many together...
what good am I
a limitless sky...
-Mike Smith
Mark, Vickie and Family,
We are so saddened to learn of this tradgedy in your family. Our hearts are broken along with so many others as we have learned of what your family is going through. Please know we are thinking of you. We love you. We are so sorry. We miss you in our lives here in Cache Valley. Our prayers are with at this time. Please know we care.
Much Love,
Ruelinda & Brad Bearnson
Erin and Family- Im so sorry and I cant imagine what u all must be going through. My prayers are with you. Heavenly Father has a plan for each of us and hes always there when u need him. I and of cource others as well pray that david will be ok he will make it through this. I have faith in god that he will come out of it. Erin ur are a remarkable young woman and hes lucky to have you even though things arent clear right now i think he knows ur right by his side waiting for him to wake up. dont give up on hope. Im glad ur there with him and his family. God bless you all
Eva Smith
Dear Heiner Family and Erin,
I cannot put into words how sad I am tonight. I can't begin to imagine what YOU all are going through.
When I hired this cute young kid from Skyview, I had no idea what an impact he would have on my life. I love David so very much and enjoyed every minute I had with him at the Theater. He is one of the most amazing people to walk this earth and he will be greatly missed. Just seeing his grin and those smiling blue eyes could change my bad mood to happy!
It is such a tribute to your family to see the great respect he had for his parents and how much he loved and adored Becca, Daniel, and Nathan.
I won't ever forget the "exaggerated" tales of his life experiences, and how he could get me to believe anything. He made everyone around him feel at ease and greatly loved. I am extremely grateful for the precious few years that I got to spend with David. I will be eternally thankful for the blessing of knowing him. Please know that my heart aches for your family and I pray everyday for you to find some sort of peace and comfort.
Erin - I know, without a doubt, how much David loves you and how important you are to him. Please keep visiting us at the Cinefour!! I love you and would do anything to help you in this time of need.
Thank you Mark and Vickie for sharing your son with me, I will miss him so very much.
Love Always,
Julie and Gordon Collins
Dear Heiner Family,
words can not describe how deeply saddened i feel about the tragedy of our beloved David. He was such a special friend to me and I loved him dearly. He was the one friend that I could tell all my secrets to or when I was sad he would make me feel better, like the time I found out my dad had cancer. He was there for me and got me through such a dark time in my life. I always looked forward going to work and seeing him there. Some of my best memories from work are with him. Like the time I threw peanut butter and jelly sandwich at his face and he was like "Hayley I can't catch" and I was like "well can ya move!" or getting into sword fights with him (out of straws) because he wanted to teach me how to fight. One time I ran into one of the theater doors and broke my finger and he made me a cast out of popsicle sticks and tape. I always admired his brilliance and wisdom. He honestly meant the world to me, I love him so much it hurts to let him go and to my selfish needs I wish he would stay. But because he is such a neat person he is needed somewhere else, and I have to realize that it is his time to leave this earth. I know that someday we will see each other again because David never broke a promise that he made to me but until then I will just have to remember all the fun times we had together and all of my good memories of him and I will never say a prayer without him in it again. Good bye David. I will miss you and I love you more than you will ever know. Love Hayley Munson or as you always called me your little Hay Hay. God bless you David Heiner.
We have been keeping David and your family in our thoughts and prayers these past days and will continue to hold you close in prayer. We share in your concerns and ask God to give you strengh.
Robert and JoAnn Campbell
Elkin
We cannot begin to understand how this tragedy could fall on such a wondeful family. We trust God has a reason and will make your family stronger because of it.
You all are in our thoughts and prayers!
Love,
Kristopher and Regina All and family
Dearest friends,
This tragic event makes us realize how precious are the moments we spend with our friends and families. I am amazed by the love and resolve you have shown during this ordeal. I did not know David, but it is evident he is a wonderful human being, just like his parents and siblings. The body is frail, but his spirit is strong. I am personally touched because Kristina and I have four little girls who love the pool. I don't know if I would have your strength if something should happen to one of ours. Your experience will make us all better parents. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless.
Tim, Kristina Barron, and girls.
I have been friends with David since 8th grade. I would always eat lunch with him, he always brought a smile to my face. Always laughing and smiling. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dear Heiner family,
We are terribly sorry for your loss. My family has been praying for you and David since we learned of the accident. Our thoughts and prayers will continue for you through this difficult time. May God bless each of you.
I can't begin to know your pain but I do know God is watching over all of you. David must be a remarkable young man. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Janie Westra
(Cord's mom)
I grieve so much for all of you at this time of incomprehensible sorrow and inexplicable loss. All of us at Galloway Episcopal Church have been on our knees for you. May God and the Holy Mother hold you close at this time.
Karin Bruce Littlejohn
I grieve so much for all of you. I can not fathom the depth of your sorrow at this unfortunate turn of events. Please know that all of us at Galloway Episcopal have been on our knees for each of you. May God and the Holy Mother hold you close during this time.
Karin Bruce Littlejohn
We are saddened by your loss.
Though we did not know David personally, it is apparent that he was an amazing young man. He will be missed by many.
We pray the love of God enfolds you with peace and comfort. Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies. Our thoughts are with your family during this difficult time.
Love, Corey, Melissa, Chandler, Ty, Kennedy & Mya Eskelson (Logan)
~Corey, Melissa, Chandler, Ty, Kennedy & Mya Eskelson
Words are not enough to express the pain we feel. Our hearts are breaking...
Love you Heiners!!!
Holly Stroud & Adam Hodge
We have all been praying for David and your family since we heard of this Friday. We are all so sorry for your most recent news and loss. We will continue to lift you up in our prayers daily through this very difficult time. All the staff of Tri-County Orthopedic
Dear Heiner Family,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all. We were deeply saddened to hear the news of David. It is sad to see someone so young taken. May the peace and comfort of our Savior be with each member of your family as you go through this tough times. We love you and miss you.
Bruce & Cindy Diamond
I am so sorry to hear the latest news. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you in your time of need. Although we've never met we are connected by our faith in God and I know He will comfort you during these troubled times. Your David sounded like a wonderful young man and will be be greatly missed by all who knew and loved him. May God wrap His loving arms around you. Walt & Joy McCoy, Hamptonville, NC
Heiner family and Erin
Words cannot express our sorrow for you during this difficult time. We will continue to keep you in our prayers. May God give you the strength and comfort you need for the upcoming days.
Dr Rhyne and staff
Dear Mark and Vicki,
Our hearts ache for you and your family during this challenging time. Getting to know the wonderful young man that David is when I was in Stake Young Mens will always be considered a blessing in my life. Jolene and I have shed many tears for you during this past few days and we pray that the Lord will continue to send the Comforter to help you in this trial. Mark, I have always considered you a close friend and I esteem you as an amazing man. Our love and prayers go out to you at this time.
Love,
Cory & Jolene Wood and family
North Logan, Utah
I wish I could find the words to give you comfort at this time. My family is still praying and will continue to pray for David and your family. After seeing all of the wonderful comments and tributes to him I can see how many lives he has touched in his short life. I only met David once a little over a week ago. I had heard so many wonderful things about him from Vicki so it was good to meet him in person. My mom was visiting from Tennessee and we ran into Vicki and the boys. Even from that one visit the thing that stood out the most was David's smile. When I called my mom on Friday after hearing the news she remembered the brightness of his smile also. We may not understand why all of this happened but I pray that God will give you peace and comfort and strength.
We are so sorry,
Tracy, Evie, Ellen ,Lauren, and Will Byers
I am so sad to hear the news, and my thoughts and prayers are with all Davids friends, family, and with Erin. Im so sorry. He was such an awesome kid. I had AP government with him in high school and have such great memories of him cracking us all up in class, and thinking about things WAY deeper than the rest of us. I always thought he was so smart, and so cool and confident, but also just the nicest guy ever. He always had a big smile and a way of making everyone feel good. I saw him at the state capitol this year during the legislative session and he of course gave me a big smile and seemed so happy and excited to be there. I wish I had known him better. He leaves so many great memories for so many people.
Annika Jones
The memories of David reflect the power of his spirit and love. Mike Smith summed it up when he wrote (above) "Dave knew himself better than anyone I ever met; his energy, his passion for the things he did was amazing and something that I admired so much about him. Never once did I see him without his smile or that infectious laugh. No matter the circumstance Dave could find the silver lining and cheer everyone up...Why are the best among us the first to go?"
Though most of us in Elkin did not know David, we feel as though we do now through these beautiful memorials from family and friends. What a special person he is to have given so much to so many.
We pray for all who grieve for their beautiful son, grandson, brother, nephew, cousin and friend.
The Nursing Department of Hugh Chatham Memorial Hospital
Dr. Heiner and family,
I am so sorry to hear this latest news. I can not even begin to imagine what you are all going through right now. However, I do know that God is there with you and will help you through this. Just lean on Him, He is a rock that will always be there for you. I didn't know David but I know he was a great young man from hearing you talk about him. I saw your eyes light up when you talked about him with us on OB. I know you were very, very proud of him. I pray that God will comfort you and give you the strength to endure.
Love,
Julie Collins
OB Nurse HCMH
May God Bless You and Keep You and Your Family. We will continue to pray for God's comfort and strength for you all.
Derrick, Tena and Logan Newman
Dear Heiners- We pray you will feel comfort, peace and assurance that our loving Heavenly Father is watching over you at this difficult time. May you let His love carry you through. Love to you all. John & Diane Tippetts and family
Thinking of you all and praying God will pull you close. Please let us know if there is anything we can do. Ginger B. Isenhoward, EES School Counselor
Dear Heiners and Erin,
My heart is just breaking for you, and at the moment I can't think of anything more intelligent to say - I am so sad and so sorry.
God bless you on the next leg of this journey, wherever it leads you.
Love,
Catherine Tanner
Milwaukee via Logan
Dr. Heiner and family,
Please know that we have you in our thoughts and prayers during this sad time. Children are a special gift from God that we are blessed with, and from all the comments read here, you are truly blessed to have had David in your lives. If there is anything at all any of us can do, please don't hesitate to call on us. Elkin has been fortunate to have you join our community and when one hurts, we all hurt. May God be with you all to face the days ahead of you.
Donna Church
Yadkin Valley Urology
Dear Heiner Family
Iwish i knew what to say right now but words cannot describe the heart ache i am feeling.I truley did think of David as a brother, as i think of all of you as a second family. I can not imagine a world without that bright smilling face to which i have never known a world without. i hope you can all get through this terrible time and continue to be the loving family that i have always known.
I think of you every day and night, I love you all so much
Abby
Dr. Heiner & Family,
I am so heartbroken to hear of this news. I never had the chance to meet your family, but Your David is so loved I can tell. I hope the best for you and yours in the time to come. Please take care!!
Brannon Zollinger
Logan UT
I love you David!!!
-T
Heiner Family,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you. We can't imagine what you are going through. May God Bless your family in each and every way.
Jonathan & Jessie Hunt
Jama Roberts
Heiner Family,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you. We can't imagine what you are going through. May God Bless your family in each and every way.
Jonathan & Jessie Hunt
Jama Roberts
Dear Mark and Vickie,
We are so sorry to hear about your son. Our hearts are breaking for you. We cannot imagine the depth of your loss. Please know that we are thinking and praying for you and your family.
Lance and JoAnn DeLange family
Dr Heiner and family-We were so sorry to hear about the accident. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Tad and Jeanette Bergen (Lorie Watts' niece)
Mark, Vickie, Rebecca,Daniel and Nathan, I am so so sorry. Our hearts ache for each one of you. I have always said the perfect ones are the ones that go first, David is for sure one of those perfect ones. Reading through everyones comments we all know David the same, he is so giving, so kind, always went out of his way, and so funny, and so smart...so perfect. David left his mark here on earth, and in my heart. You can't forget a person like David, he touched everyone he met. He touched me. Vickie and Rebecca, I wrap my arms around you both. I wish I could take this pain from you. I love you guys so much. May God comfort each of you. Cami Haderlie
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. We love your family and know what great people you are. God bless.
Ryan and Taya Jones
I got to know David in high school. We were in debate together, as well as in an art class together. In our art class, we sat next to each other, and would talk and talk and talk! I enjoyed so much the time I spent with him, talking about everything, from daily stuff to deep philosophy. I loved David's love of philosophy! Fortunately, we also worked, so our art teacher could never really get angry with us. One time she even let us out of class to practice a round of debate, where he helped me a lot, being a senior debate rookie.
Debate was also such a wonderful time to spend with him. I loved our team, and it was a privilege to get to work with David, Holly, Mason, Isaac, Brandon, Kelly, Coltin, and the other LD-ers. Unfortunately, I was a year older than all of them, so I only got to spend one year with David. I tried to keep in touch, and every once in a while I'd run into him, behind the movie theater, or in one of my random visits to Utah State's campus.
The thing I remember most now, and I will always remember, is the feeling you got when you talked to David. Unlike some, David never made you feel judged or bad in any way. Whenever I'd run into him after high school, he always just made me feel happy. Plain, pure happy. Joy. He was a boy so full of love, that no one could help but feel it. And he will be blessed for his love.
And we all love him for the love that he taught some, and shared with others.
May God bless and keep him for the eternities, is my prayer,
Katrina Christopherson Bascom
We have not met, but I want to offer my deepest sympathy to the family. Words are inadequate to express how truly sorry I am.
Evie Good
State Road
Know that you all are in our thoughts at this time, that you all are in are prayers, and in your time of need and your wellbeing is close to our hearts. may god bless.
jennifer and drake
To David's family and friends-
I was deeply saddened to read the latest update on David. I pray you will feel God's presence as He provides you with strength and comfort in the days ahead. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Amy Wagoner
Heiner family:
We have all been following David's blog so closely and hoping for a miracle to happen. We know how much family means to you all and how sad you must all feel at the loss of this very precious member of yours. Our hearts ache for you durring this difficult time. This is a time to celebrate the wonderful life that David has lived and find joy in all the lives that he has touched and made a difference in. Know that you have raised a wonderful young man that was kind, generous and always smiling. You have prepared him to do great things and he will be watching over on your family from heaven. We miss you all so much and wish that there was something that we could do for you. Know that you will all be in our thoughts and prayers
Logan Regionl Hospital
Labor and Delivery Dept.
Mark, Vicki, Dick and Pauline - we have been deeply touched because of the events of the past few days. We have felt an emptiness in our hearts.
Through these events all of us appreciate more those who are close and dear to us, recognizing the fragile nature of this life. May you treasure the 19 years you have had with David and may these memories bring peace to your hearts.
Our prayers and love are extended to you.
Paul and Judy Mendenhall
Centerville, Utah
Mark and Vickie,
Our family has been deeply saddened by the news of David. There is nothing profound that I can think of to say, and sometimes that is not what we need to hear anyway. All I can say is that we are thinking of you, and praying for your family in this difficult time. Know that you will always hold a special place in our hearts!
Daryl, Ashley & Kamri Larsen
Robert, Shirley & Josh Whitman
Beautiful, Beautiful Boy! Inside and out. Our deepest sympathy, Steve and Vickie Munson and family
Dr. Heiner and family:I am very sad to hear the outcome of the tragic event.I was one of the paramedics who responded to the call and worked agressively to save Davids' life...He was a strong fighter who did not want to give up...GOD has a special place for David in Heaven...Your family will be in my prayers...GOD BLess...Roger Horton..Surry County EMS
Mark, Vicki and family,
Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. You have been and will continue to be in our prayers. We didn't have the privilege to know David, but we know that he was loved by all. May God be with you at this time.
I will continue to keep you in my prayers. May God give you the strength and comfort you need for the upcoming days
Renee Ring, EMT-P, YCEMS
Dr. Heiner and family, I am so sorry to hear about your son David...the comments on this blog attest to what a fine young man he was. You are in my prayers. Mary Digel MD, Sparta, NC
Heiner Family and Erin,
I am deeply sorry to hear the news. I can't tell you how many times I've prayed for David and for your family. David will be missed so much. He was such a great guy. David was always so nice to me and made me feel special. I enjoyed working with him at Cinefour for a time. David always said hi to me when I saw him on campus and I loved talking to him. He could always make me laugh. He was an amazing person, and I hope you can find peace. God bless all of you.
Niki Jones
Dr Heiner and family: We are so sorry for your loss. We were so heart broken when we heard about this terrible tragedy. We never knew David, but Dr. Heiner means the world to our family. You will be in our thoughts and Prayers.
God Bless you
Tiffany, Justin & Brylee Nield
Logan Ut
Still Praying!......Love, Pam Colbert
Gloria and I are praying much for your whole family during this time. We miss visiting with you all, and will miss David's smile and conversation. Many of our people at Grace Fellowship will be upholding you in prayer in the days, weeks and months ahead. All we can know at this point is that His "grace is sufficient" for you all! Pastor Bill and Gloria Bagley
I have often thought about you all as we sat around your table at the cottage. Thoughts of David would always make me smile because of his fun spirit and creativity. Thank you for allowing me to know him just that little bit, yet having such great memories of a very special young man!
Much love and prayers,
Gloria Bagley
I am so sorry for the loss of David. He was an incredible person that really enjoyed life. Please know of the prayers and good wishes that have been expressed on his behalf. I will always remember him as the fun loving kid I came to know at Lake Powell on a trip with the Larson family. The good time I had water skiing and boating with your son are some of my fondest memories. I will never forget his great love for his family and friends. May God give you peace and comfort. Please know of our love for you and your son.
Robert Olson
What a truly remarkable family the Heiner family is! My family's thoughts and prayers turn to you in this time of great sadness. May the Lord comfort you and help you to truly feel that this separation is only temporary, for you will be together again one day.
Love,
Jason, Cami and Bryli Webb, Utah
Always have you all on my mind. Will continue praying for you. love you and are here if you need anything. Tracy Stowe
My prayers are with your family. I am so sorry. I did not know David, but I can tell that he was a truly amazing person.
We are so sorry to hear about your loss! Your family is in our prayers daily and we pray that the spirit is with you in your time of grief. Love Skylar and Chelsey Griffin
Mark and Vickie,
Our prayers go with you and your family as you face the days ahead. Your strength and love will get your family thru this.
John and Aileen Cahill (Mary Steiner's parents)
Dear Heiner family,
In the Summer of 2002, we spent a week at Lake Powell with our friends, Carole and Shane Larson and their children. David, friend of Jonathan, was present and we got to know him a little bit. I remember a young man with a quick smile and a lively sense of humor. We joked easily and frequently. I remember throwing a ball to him and Jonathan as they would jump into the water and how when I asked them "is that how they catch the ball in Logan" he corrected me that it was "North Logan." So, that became our running joke the rest of the trip..."is that how it is done in North Logan?" David got a real kick out of that and so did we.
Even though we were exposed to David for just a few days I was struck by how solid he was and how good he seemed to be. The report of his accident, injury and death was shocking to our family. We can only imagine the impact on those closer to him.
We join the rest of those here in saying how sorry we are at your loss and can only pray to the Lord that he help you through this time and heal your hearts.
Love, The Calvert Family, Houston, Texas
Dear Dr Heiner and Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss! We miss you much! Our prayers are with you! We will never forget what a great guy and doctor you are!
Dr Heiner and Family,
We feel great sorrow for your loss. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sara and Gifford Baugh
Death leaves a heartache
No one can heal;
Love leaves a memory
No one can steal.
I never met David, but I am so saddened by his loss.
I, much like you, came to this area from elsewhere in hopes of giving my children a better life. Then, my husband died in Sept.
So, I know all too well the pain that comes from grieving and cruelty that stems from living in a new place and having to deal with that without having your lifelong friends and family closeby. I also know how horrible it is to see your children grieving and to be helpless to take away their suffering, while experiencing your own.
I wish I could provide you with some words of comfort that would make this easier for you, but I can only say that I'm sorry and that I understand.
Your family chain is broken and nothing seems the same, but God will bring each of us home again eventually - and the chain will link again.
Bless you and yours. tlcandray@aol.com
Your family continues to be in our prayers.
The Templetons
My deepest sympathies go to the Heiner family. I am a philosophy professor at USU and had the privilege of teaching David. He was an exceptional student, lively and engaged. He seemed to take to the life of the mind with a joyful seriousness. We spoke outside of class with some frequency, he was both vocal and humble in his inquiries. A tremendous role model for other students as he was the kind of student a prof loved to have in class. He will be missed among the small family of philosophers here at USU.
~ Harrison Kleiner
Heiner Family and Erin,
My heart broke when I opened up the newspaper yesterday morning and read about David. I hadn't heard about his accident until then and I was shocked and saddened as I read about it.
I supervise the writing lab at Sky View High School and I got to know David well as he spent many, many hours in my lab doing debate and government research. He and I had many talks and I know that David had a very tender heart. I know that he loved his family and Erin very, very much.
David was a very respectful, smart and funny boy. He will always remain one of my favorites. I feel honored to be able to say that I knew David.
I have a very real belief in God and in eternal life and I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that David is well and happy. Take comfort in knowing that you will one day be reunited with your precious son and best friend.
My prayers are with you all.
Marsha A. Larsen
I was walking at 11 tonight, and, I don't know what it was, something made me think of Heiner.. After I saw the article on the front page of the paper, I had to get out of the Valley, I hitchiked to Cali.. and didn't look back, It was my way of not dealing with it. I cried when I saw the paper, but once I left I tried to leave my problems in Logan. We first met in 8th grade, I was in Tom Goonan's tae kwon do class, and Michael had gotten him to come... we always goofed around, and he was always so interested to talk to, although a bit quiet. I didn't see him after he quit, and I quit shortly after. I remember waiting a table for you, Vickie and Mark at Kamin, and when I saw the ticket, I asked about your son a few years back, and was excited to know you were all still around.. Spring 07 I had a buddhism class with him, I wasn't expecting it. He didn't say a word, for the most part.
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